Grastof - Lotro

[Aldegarn]

Grastof just left the kin, so i'll jump the gun on this one and post the (latest?) reason, without saying anything myself and leaving it for others to judge;

[To Kinship] elo ladies, but not eo since you're cheating by having that vagina
[Kinship] Riwennor: hahaha omg;O
[Kinship] Surento: >.<
[Kinship] Grastof: i am not a lady mate
[Kinship] Grastof: dont forget me
[Kinship] Riwennor: hey bin laden:O
[Kinship] Surento: Don't encourage him Grastof ;p
[Kinship] Surento: Hey Adles
[To Kinship] but...gras...like surma you've always secretly wanted to be one, and run down the streets of eh...lappenranta or wherever he lives and pick up men just like surma wants and does
[To Kinship] eh nvm me..i just came home and havent had my coffee yet
[Kinship] Grastof: okey i had enough of this bullshit.. good luck
Grastof has left your kinship.

[Padme]

Did i just miss something or nothing at all?

[Aldegarn]

Did i just miss something or nothing at all?

nope, that's the whole conversation, from me logging on to gras leaving the kin

[Eovina]

Eh..... Maybe we was a bit childish... .. But it was only on a good tune... The only one i regret on is when i called Leden for Bin laden..
But i thought it fits

[Padme]

"... I've had enough of this bullshit" implies that maybe there has been more, not just this conversation.

I remember a couple of days ago i had an animated talk (just dont remember with whom it was anymore) when i started talking spanish and the other person answered with a reply of "date-rape on the third date blablabla" which i again replied on with something probably not worth mentioning etc etc. I dont know if (but i think yes) Grastof was also present then which might have added up to what happened today?

It is a shame however that he left because he seems really nice  and i dont think anybody ment to offend him... i guess he just took something personal which was not ment to be

[Grastof]

You had to watch your words before talking to the people , kid.
This wasnt funny at all.I didnt want to insult you in the kinship after these rascal words.
Try to make your silly jokes to people who know you...
I joined this kinship because of its maturity and i never insulted any people in it.You have to learn some respect..

Besides i dont have to listen your rascal jokes so i quit the kinship... You are doing this a lot...

Good bye to you all , i will never look at this forums again because i know this fellow will be mad... and he will start endless conversations...

[Wicked Mouse]

Did you approach any officer to discuss the matter, Grastof?

[Dirtball]

Wicked has a good point here. The Officers don't know about any grievance unless we're made aware, at which point we will always attempt to resolve the issue to prevent people feeling like they have to take drastic action. If you're willing it would be a good idea to have a chat about this and try to mend the situation so there's no ill feeling.

[Aldegarn]

You had to watch your words before talking to the people , kid.
This wasnt funny at all.I didnt want to insult you in the kinship after these rascal words.
Try to make your silly jokes to people who know you...
I joined this kinship because of its maturity and i never insulted any people in it.You have to learn some respect..

Besides i dont have to listen your rascal jokes so i quit the kinship... You are doing this a lot...

Good bye to you all , i will never look at this forums again because i know this fellow will be mad... and he will start endless conversations...

And exactly when have I insulted you? by your words it sounded like im sitting sending you tells with saying that "you have a small dick" or something, and that's hardly the case. And even if you won't look at the forums more it still needs to be resolved by the officers and other members, if it even needs to be resolved.

If you're mad...then you have no idea how annoyed i am right now, so *calm breath*, if i haven't (willingly) insulted you before I might just do that now 'cause im furious.


*another calm breath and counts to ten* humour isn't always easily translated (and sarcasm and irony is even harder) and i don't know if this is some form or "lost in translation" thing or what it might be - but i can't honestly see what wrong i have done, and if i have..then it's up to the officers to reprimand me or even kick me if it comes to that or...explain to me what's going on.


Edit: yes..this is going to be an endless discussion, but also seemingly one that needs to be had; where to put the bar and so on, what people can handle jokewise before their egos/manhood/whatever is insulted, jokes are...jokes to at least me and the insults are always on the side of the one being insulted unless the "joke" really is meant to be an insult but then it looses its meaning imo

[Achazia]

Delete this!
I was to private..forgot it was a public forum. I apologize

[daimon]

Sort it in-game if there's something to sort about not in public. Lock the thread please.

[Berry]

Hello all!

I know Alde and know he didn't mean anything insulting by it or anything else he spurts out. Sometimes we all cross the line because we're all different and perceive things differently. Though I'm just recently in from the void myself, I have some experince with kinships as well and the member(s) and officers can't do anything about a problem that's not been made aware to them. Leaving such a parting shot without giving people a chance to correct it or explain it (which they might actually want to) is not doing much good.

Just my two cents.
Berry

Edit: I saw Surma's post after I posted this, so feel free to delete it or so if that's more appropriate.

[Achazia]

yes I think Surma is right  Perhaps not suitable to discuss in public....Please delete my post aswell
*achazia leaves forum and her interfering  *

[Dirtball]

As Surma said this kind of conversation is no place for a public forum. If anyone wants to carry it on then let's do it in game or by PM.

Closed.