Hello Read want to ask u all somthing :/

[Thering]

Hey i have been thinking much abut this but i still not know how to tell u guys
but i have a feeling that u guys dont want me around here or somthing like that
and u guys dont speak so much to me  :/
i dont know how this happend if all things change after my Accident or other things :/

Sorry my english

[Gunganator]

well i would say the big issue is exacly what i could claim. but in all fairness to everyone else they can only interact as much as you allow. look at both our post counts they are not exactly the largest. i do suspect if you posted more you would get more people talking back. unless there is something that i dont know about, i would really think it's your own doing.

[Thering]

yes  i know but i dont have much to talk abut
:/

[Wilbur Spoons]

What? So we are just supposed to randomly post messages to you for the sake of it now to help you with your ego?

Huh?

[Joxer]

Not sure if your fairly new to MoX as, ironically I have not noticed you about on the forums before

I understand though if you are new that it can be tricky sometimes to find your place within a community of people who have known each other a while and built up strong bonds.  

<< TRUE STORY ALERT >>

Had a similiar experience with a guild I joined on WoW many years back.  For the first month I kept my head down, and was very careful what I said for fear of being misinterpreted or drawing negative attention to myself.  As a result I ended up saying very little at all, alienated myself and generally felt a bit excluded.  

After 2 months of raiding with them, and a raid attendance of 100%, my Class Officer still had not promoted me to "Raider Rank" and I only had two people in the whole guild I spoke to, so I decided I would be more social within the guild rather than worrying about how I came across.  

I started posting a lot on forums, joining in with conversations in guild chat and taking part in the usual friendly banter and piss taking.  Within six weeks I had actually been given the position of Rogue Officer Assistant, and two weeks after that when the Rogue Officer switched his main to Shaman, I was nominated by him and the other guildies to take over his Officer position.  Also made a lot of really great friends, some of which I still talk to now, despite leaving the guild a long time ago.

<< STORY ALERT ENDED >>

I doubt very much that people "don't want you around" and I do agree with Gung.  Post more on forums, maybe get involved in a couple of other MoX games to meet more people.  If you don't have much to talk about then find something to talk about.  Chat about a new game that's coming out your interested in, or politics or maybe a hobby..or even just post funny pictures of lolcats...everyone loves lolcats!!

DISCLAIMER: Joxer will not be held legally or morally responsible for any mass spamming of lolcatz threads as a result of this post.

[Wilbur Spoons]

Ring has been round for a few years Joxer, however he is too young to access the member forums and as a result pops up on the public from time to time to check in on us. Recently he had a life threatening accident, and has, I am pleased to say, recovered from it.

However, as I say, he hasn't got full access as he isnt officially a member of MoX and will have to game with us and apply when he reaches the required age.

[Joxer]

Ah I see, in that case just be as active in game as possible, get involved in groups and discussions whenever you can and help people out with stuff.

[Dr HR]

I am pleased to say, recovered from it.

^^ Aye glad to see u still alive n kicking

i can understand where everyone is coming from. its one of those weird things even i suffer from (depending on situation).

but i do argee tht perhaps gaming with more people can help. i mean thts what happened to me in cox, at first i was only taking to the odd person or 2 then spoke abit more. (normally about jipper japper ) and got to know more in game. then spoke to others on forums. i know ur situation is different, so maybe u could speak to ppl on posts tht u might have a thought of.
for example if u read other ppls posts u must have some sort of thought even if its "lol true" it might not be much but gets u going.
it isnt cos we dont want u. if none of us liked u we wouldnt go about ignoring u till u left. we'd talk about it.